A lot of people today, think that once they have that approval from the other person to go on the first date the other person is accepting to have sex with you for the first time. It's just the way people think, and you rub your hands together in total joy as your partner turns around and disappears.
Then you must think it is a game and everything will fall into place for you, so you can tell you will highlight yourself with your girlfriends or boyfriends when you next meet up. "I scored with June, last night" - It's not a scoreboard competition. You are playing with people's emotions.
So what do you do, we'll, as you talk to your partner, the date is set, you can kindly ask. 'Oh Sarah, after we have dinner tonight, will it be possible to stay with you tonight at your house to keep you warm?' This is an indirect way of wanting to stay with her overnight and be intimate with her. Her response will answer your question, 'Oh Pete, it would be lovely but my parents will be home.' 'Oh, for sure, it will be great to stay with me, we can talk and do lots of things.' Oh, Peter, I'm not comfortable with that yet, I'm sure our first dinner together will be great!'
The choice of meeting place has to be agreed upon. Should one partner not know where the date is - then explanation of the place or research and visit the place on the internet, will make it more comfortable for them.
So for the first date, you will need to dress appropriately. If it was a dinner date at McDonalds - no use to wearing formal dress. If it was at a local restaurant, a touch more than casual clothes. Nothing's like shorts and singlets. If it is at a classy place formal clothes to suit the mood. You wouldn't want your partner to be dressed for the occasion and you underdressed. You need to check with your partner what he or she is wearing, so you can reasonably match.
From beginning to finish of the date, make sure you've got the right address of where you both going. If you are a male arrange to pick her up - if your partner is not accepting then move on and don't get upset
Always be polite, speak positive, and never let rudeness creep into action and words Speak when the time is right. Compliment your partner in the same way you would like to be complimented. Present yourself well at the correct venue. Do not be underdressed
1 Be polite, positive, respectful and present well
2 Talk when needed and add fun in conversation. Don't put your partner down - you are both on a test
3 Smile and be happy at times and be happy with what they say about you in the end, and have fun.
4 Most importantly, be as relaxed as you can be.
5 With questions that dig don't dig deep, and allow time to listen to longer conversations and add in at the right time.
6. Be thoughtful when choosing topics and work out whole paying the bill \: You pay this time 50/50 and the lady pays next time.
7 At the end, you will be able to work with you if you are both starting to feel compatible. That is when understanding if it is a positive, the next step in the relationship: holding hands, arms, kissing or just any decent touching actions may occur.
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