What is the essential part of keeping a relationship going when moving to a new place of residence, first time?

The major breakdown in relationships is basically a breakdown in communication, between partners. Seriously two loving people decide to live together, in a common house, and hopefully in the same bed. Their lives change dramatically. Why is this so? Many factors may be reasons to relate to it. The main one is this is their first time, living in the same place and being close together in the same space.

What happens because it is the first time, come under one roof, there is little or no discussion or thought put into it on organising chores, who does what when. Then how will they react to understanding and discovering the facts of the traits they committed themselves to. Simply, the more traits you provide to your partner, the more they will in time compare if meeting their expectations to all traits

Without knowing, your language, and the way you speak will change to accommodate each other's new conversations.  For example, it will not be 'What can I pick you up tonight?', it will be 'Where can we go tonight, hin( or similar)?' 

Once you commit to living together both your lifestyle changes. It could be that your parents were doing everything for you from making meals to cleaning up your rooms and suddenly you've never made your bed. How do I make the bed? Are we cooking together or will she do all the cooking! Oh no, I will have to cook as well? I'll drive us to the shops - oh she's driving to the shops with me. A big loss of independence sets in but the gain of living with your partner in daily life, testing the water to see how it all goes.

Overnight, you both change adapting yourselves to each other and acceptance that doing things together should be the primary reason for being together. You've gone from doing nothing around the house to suddenly having a mental roster as to what chores you may have to learn and adapt to, making your partner happy. Being less committed to each other, may not work out together or even being uncommitted. You might as well gain back your independence and move out.

 So we spoke about general language changes but what about physical language. They both play an important role, in how we all feel. What happens if your partner has been cleaning all the house up and you had to watch that Many versus Parramatta game, yet your team lost the game. Knowing your partner is working hard all day and you are having that rest sends a wrong signal to your partner. What if your partner was a Parramatta supporter and didn't see them win the game. Was that fair? No, not really. 

What should have happened before moving into the house can be discussed there and then, with time out for both. By sorting out who does what chores/activities, whether they are individual activities or joint ones, allowing for both people to be sharing quality time together. If you agree to help your partner with the chores, then you cut your partner's time working by half and yes you can both watch the Manly versus Parramatta game and  all can see the the winning team and the games results.

So we have to watch our own body language and make sure that our partner is as happy as ourselves are. Plans to move into a new house together and at the same time, should be done and plans for doing things for your own headspace time, as well. 

The essential part of keeping a relationship going when moving to a new place of residence, the first time is important communication that you had before moving in and keeping that total love and respect for each other on the table.

If you don't have open clearcut communication between both parties may be highly unlikely your sexual activity maybe the same. IT not all doom and gloom couples can make it discovering their new personalities